"A child can teach an adult 3 things. 1. To be happy for no reason. 2. To always be busy with something. 3. And to know how to demand with all his might that which he desires." Paulo Colho
Saturday, April 11, 2009
Friday, April 10, 2009
making use of my tools
See top left hand corner...we had car shaped eggs! Made that with a really cool gadget which can mould eggs into shapes. There's many designs out in the market, like stars, hearts, bunnies, and even hello kitty. Also made some rice, shaped nicely with the rice moulds and unagi which is Wx's favourite. I also made some cold tofu and miso soup, but nothing special about that, so no pics..I jus want to show the car shaped eggs. hahaha...
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Free beauty samples
All you have to do is sign up, pick the samples you want and check out. The samples are free but you'll have to pay for postage/handling fee which is a rather fair deal. I've already picked out the items I want (2 BB creams, and 1 beauty essence)....I'll be looking out for the postman the next few days!
Check it out!
Sunday, March 15, 2009
random ramblings......
22 days, I kept tab. It was a full 3 weeks where everyone (almost) took turn to fall sick. The last was me. I am actually quite impressed I could last that long before succumbing to the super duper bug. First was Jarrett, then Wx, then my father-in-law, next was my mother in law and even Wx's bro and then finally, me. I took so many days off during the 1st 2 weeks cos obviously everyone else was not able to care for the one super duper cranky toddler who refused to eat! Darn..i tell u, each time i manage to fatten up the kiddo, some virus will surface and wiped off the weight. We tried coaxing him to eat and drink with various method, at one point, we were even tempted to force feed, but of cos we didn't. The poor fellow (or was it us?) was brawling the whole house down (poor neighbours), that we just didn't have the heart to force him to do anything else.
On natural food therapy
In my quest to get the little one well, I adopted a pot of oregano. I wanted to use a more natural way to help J heal from the viral infection besides all those vile medicine. I am one who believe God has provided us with cures and solutions aplenty in nature, it's just up to us to discover, believe and make use of what is given. But of cos, He also provides us with doctors, so we still go see Dr. Yap lah...
Anway, this is what Oregano can do:
Has antibacterial properties and helps relieve chest infections, coughs and catarrh.
I have been adding a few leaves to the veg stock or J's porridge, together with a clove of garlic.
Garlic:
Has antibacterial, antiviral and anti fungal properties.
Also, Shiitake mushroom:
Has antibacterial, antiviral and antiparasitic properties and is a natural source of interferon, which provides protection against viruses. also a good source of germanium, an element that enhances immunity.
Prior to getting the fresh oregano, I would add a pinch of dried french mix herbs to the stock. Boy...I never knew how that one pinch can add so much flavour to veg stock. I am so in love with my french herbs. It has a permanent shelf space in my kitchen now.
So J's fully recovered, I don't know how much the oregano and garlic helped but I am definitely sticking to the way of using food to help boost my baby's immune system. Not only is it more healthy, it also adds more flavour to the food which helps to whet the little one's appetite..so it's one stone killing 3 birds! I think I am one of those fanatic mama who beams with pleasure whenever the kiddo finishes his meal.....
ok...too tired to continue, so this is one abrupt ending...I'm off to bed..
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
sharing "culinary" tips
Question:
Hey you bot sakura chicken (fresh) from ntuc before right? Do you get them to chop up the chicken or bring home a whole and slaughter before you cook?
Best,
Idiot chef
Reply:
haha...idiot chef,
jarrett's mummy usually buy the whole chicken n chop it up herself at home. but as she doesn't own a chinese chopper nor does she noe how to use one, she often employs the help of the scissors, failing which the help of her hubby to tear the poor chicken into bits and pieces.
she'll also skinned n de-boned the chicken at the same time, saved the bones (with bits of flesh on it) to make chicken stocks for jarrett's porridge and if she's feeling ultra wicked, she'll also save the fats with skin (gasps!) for roast/grill chicken for the adults.
Best Regards,
Amature iron chef...LOL...AHHAHAHAHAAA...................................
Reply from idiot chef:
Dear Amature iron chef
Many thanks for sharing the ‘Best Ways of Handling an Organic Bird’.
I will try asking the staff at NTUC for help before battling it out myself…. kekeke
Ta!
Best,
Idiot but so wicked chef
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Never underestimate the power of retail therapy
The last weekend was truly most exhausting. Taking care of 2 sick patients with household chores was no joke. Ever heard of the saying "Be careful of what you asked for"? God must have suddenly recalled my earnest prayer for patience.
Anyway, Wx tried his best to help and was a gem for doing some of the chores despite the drowsiness from the medicine. It was just our luck that the part time domestic help wasn't able to come over when we needed her most. The most difficult part of the weekend was to ensure J was well hydrated and fed. He refused most food and drinks and even when he did accept any, it was at most tiny sips.
Needless to say, by Monday, my hair's almost all gone (I need to start saving for YunNam) and patience sorely tested. I was exhausted and irritated and both Wx and I were ready to snap off each other's head. If there's such a term, I think I had a mother's burnt out. So....serious therapy was required to get my balance back. No lah....dun start shaking your head, I didn't run off and buy myself a new Dior bag or new shoes (maybe I should have? Duh...). I went for a bout of cheap retail therapy. I went to....Diaso!
And look what I got! Such amazing things they have for $2. I didn't have to break my piggy bank or my "vow" to watch my spending what with the bad economy..actually I subscribe to the school of thought that spending is the tool to ride out a financial crisis. The above was written more for Wx's peace of mind, so that he knows I'm not going to break the bank and spend J's education fund.
Well...back to my loot...I'm so pleased.
Bento tools....I am at this Bento crazy stage...I can't wait to start making crazy cute bentos for J.So though he can't appreciate cute train shaped pancake or Pooh's sandwich yet, I better start practising now. It's no easy feat to make those super duper cute bentos k...
and just when I was wondering how to bring cool snacks for J on a hot day without lugging the cooler box/bag, ta...da....i found this cool snack box! It comes with a gel pack which can be frozen before use so that it helps to keep the temp down..I'm gg to try this soon to see if it works..darn..my bro's so rite...i'm getting more and more aunty..imagine getting excited over a snack box..i am such a sad case.Monday, February 16, 2009
to the zoo.....

feeling a little sleepy..........

while waiting for the tickets..father & son had fun posing for the camera
Sunday, February 15, 2009
Thursday, January 22, 2009
Thank you Aunty Jean
"clap clap" THANK YOU Aunty Jean! Muack!
Monday, January 19, 2009
Friday, January 16, 2009
Jarrett's a "movie" star!
Meanwhile, some shots of father and son goofing around outside the studio and our short Chinatown exploration.
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Jarrett's 1st bento box!
So anyway, instead of puree fruit which I always give him when we are out, I have prepared wheatgerm bread and fresh blueberries. ok..so it's not a proper bento, more like a snack box, but what the heck, I am happy to show his cutsy box and his cool water bottle. He has refused to use his mag mag straw no matter how hard we tried, so we are going ahead and using his Shinzi Katoh bottle.
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
And he's 1
We clean his butt when he poo, wiped up his puke and still plant lots of kisses all over his face before we send him to bed. Even if he drives me mad with his fussiness at times, I'll forget all about it once he plants a kiss on my lips, or give me one of his "cannot see eyes" grins.
At times, I feel overwhelmed with the love I have for this little guy. It's like I just want to eat him up so he'll stay inside me..lol..for months I didn't dare to voice this out, thinking I'll sound like a manic..until one evening, Wx asked me if I have such thoughts, cos he feels the same too! Waahahaha...
We didn't hold a big party for him, just a small one for both side of the families. We wanted to surround him with people who loves him best and I'm glad we did. It wasn't too fussy and the little guy had fun showing off his new toys and his first few steps. Pics coming soon..
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Monday, December 08, 2008
3 times in 6 years
So well, it wasn't tough changing our plans. Infact, Wx was secretly very pleased with how things turn out and ahem, I am not complaining too. LOL..
And no...Jarrett's staying home with ah ma. This is a romantic trip daddy & mummy.
Thursday, November 27, 2008
Jarrett's education fund
So guys, please help me spread the news and check out VanilaPod!
Monday, November 17, 2008
mummy & son
Scene 1:
Me: Call Mama
J spent a few seconds staring at mama.
Me: call ma....ma..
J: bird................... (or so it sounds. He noes what birds are)
Me: No....call ma....ma...
J staring at mama for a few more seconds.
J: bird..............
Me: Argh..........no lah! mama not bird (and walked away)
J: mama....ma...ma................
Happened 2-3 times.
Scene 2:
Me: call Mama...
J: Pa pa....(and gave me a smirk! I kid you not!)
Me: no...call ma....ma....
J: Pa pa pa pa pa pa pa (and jumping around in his cot, holding onto the side bar of cos)
Me: ARGH!!!!!!!!!!!!! (walked away)
J: MAMA..................ma................................
Happened too many times...
The joy of motherhood....
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Abbott
Sales: Hello Mrs Ng, your baby is coming to 1 yrs old!
Mrs Ng: Yes, he is going to 1.
Sales: So are you still breastfeeding?
Mrs Ng: Yeap!
Sales: When do you intend to stop?
Mrs Ng: I have no idea.
Sales: So you still have ample supply of milk ya?
Mrs Ng: I'm a good cow
Sales (must be thinking: darn..this is bad for sales)
: Oh...good...but if any time you decide to stop, give me a call, I'll send you some free sample.
Mrs Ng: Ok.
Sales: I'll send you my namecard ok? Must call me hor.
Mrs Ng: ...............ok..............
Sunday, November 09, 2008
In search for our christmas tree - Part 1
We started off with some grand plans to have a nice lunch, hop over to Ikea to Chirstmas shop and stopping at Rochester for tea and then move on to Singapore Poly to attend my niece's dance performance at 7pm. But of cos, with Jarrett, a schedule never work the way you plan it. So instead of stepping out of the house at 1pm, we only managed to step out of the house close to 4pm. So lunch was at 5pm, and since we were at Anchorpoint, why not shop around, since the tiny mall has gone through a facelift (small one I think).
And look what Jarrett got to do!
Sayang.....sayang....
Kiss kiss!And over at Singapore Poly, those kids were so good! The performance was so much better than I expected. They reminded me of what youth is all about = vitality and good clean fun! Even with Jarrett in my arms, I couldn't help tapping my feet to the music and wish for a sec, I was on stage dancing my head off and having some fun. So kudos to Princess Qinzhen! Well done sweetie! And know what, Jarrett being his daddy's son, managed to fall sound....asleep in the 2nd half, despite the loud music and screaming. Wx once fell sound asleep in a club, as in snoring sound asleep...the ng's men, you amazing sleepers. And that....... include my 2 brother in laws who have their own "creative" styles of sleeping too.
Aidan's party
Sunday, November 02, 2008
Another evening all alone with my little one.
Now, there's a saying which states that everyone has a weakness or as commonly said in Taiwanese shows, "Wo bai gei ni le". This is definitely the case for me when it comes to Jarrett. This evening is another mother & son quality time. Wx has a paper and so left Jarrett and I alone at home. I was a bundle of nerves before Wx left. I prepared everything in advance while Jarrett was napping, such as getting his dinner all nicely laid out on a tray, his pyjamas, wash cloths all ready by the side, my trusty Hotsling on stand by, his fav. CD (actually he only watches one) all ready in the player.... I was all prepared and ready. So confident was I, that I actually had the nerves to wake the little guy up from his nap! This takes a lot of courage ok, cos Jarrett strikes everyone in the family, grandma included, with fear when he's all cranky during meal time and this always happen when he's tired/sleepy. Infact, each time he refuses to nap, we'll all break down into cold sweat when his meal time comes. It's the same case when he doesn't get enough sleep.
God must have been watching over me this evening, cos Jarrett was a total angel! I know I sound like a really lousy mum, so terrified of doing the most natural thing every mother should know - taking care of their babies. But I am, I still have so.....much more to learn. Unlike Wx who's a natural parent, I confess I have so much more work to do, as in learning to be a parent. I can cook ok well for Jarrett, and I earnestly read up on parenting/child development but when it comes to practical, I am just so argh........
Anyway, today's a total success. Both of us had lots of fun together. Jarrett laughed at all the stupid things I did and we played balls. While submitting my report to the father, he even got a little jealous at how much fun we had. Well, today's not much but I certainly think it has made me more confident as a mother. =)
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Jarrett's sick!
The little fellow had never been sick before so you can imagine how we panicked when his fever shot up to 40.3 deg last nite. It started with a slight fever in the afternoon which didn't look too serious as he was still perky and eating well, so Wx gave him the fever med given by the doc when Jarrett got his vaccines. We thought it was signs of teething. Monitored his temp. and it went down to normal range right before he went to bed around 9+. But at around 1plus in the morning, Jarrett woke up suddenly (which hardly ever happens cos he has been sleeping thru the nite since 8th week), he was all quiet, lying in bed with his eyes wide opened. We were lucky Wx was up to check his temp. We found his temp hovering around 38-39.5!
Needless to say, we got into a mad rush to bring him to the hospital. When we got into NUH's Children A&E, his temp was around 38.5, but it later went up to 40.3. Jarrett's face was all flushed up, red as an apple. He looked all confused and exhausted, with weepy eyes when we tried to feed him the med and I finally understood why some mummies broke down in tears when their little ones fall sick, cos I felt like sitting down and weep a little too. Wx went around mumbling "so poor thing, heart pain".
The doc diagnosed it as viral infection but as a precaution, she wanted to take a urine sample to make sure it's not urinary track infection. Let me tell u, waiting for a baby to pee at 3am in the morning is not funny. The nurse attached this plastic pocket bag over his little friend with instructions for us to check every 20mins. This plastic pocket looks so uncomfortable! Imagine wearing a plastic bag over ur butt! So anyway, we settled in and waited for Jarrett to pee.
We could have taken the next alternative which was to bring the baby home but once he pees, bring in the sample within 2hrs. We thought since we were all up, might as well just wait a little and save us another mad rush to the hospital with the sample. So we waited, and waited and waited. No pee! Argh............
At 5am, I really wanted to go home, Jarrett was already sleeping and I was totally exhausted. So we packed up and left, with strict instructions from the nurses to bring back the sample within 2 hrs. It's not a long drive, from NUH to home, but at 5+ in the morning with no sleep at all, everywhere seemed far. Got into the carpark close to 5.30am, and guess what? Jarrett finally pee. So we restarted the engine and drove back to the hospital.
It was close to 7am when we finally got home. Jarrett's fever went down a little, hovering around 38deg.
For a little fellow who had never gotten sick, he sure knows how to do it with style for the first time.
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
Pest infection!!!
Saturday, October 04, 2008
Playdate at Playdays

Jarrett & Kayden had a playdate a few weeks back at Playdays, all kindly organized by Kayden's Mummy. Situated in sleepy Sunset Way, I like it for it's quietness. Everything seems to slow down once we turn into the junction from Clementi. Jarrett was the youngest kiddo in the class, all others were above 1 yrs old as it was a class for 12-18mths if I am not wrong. There's no weekend class for below 12mths.Jarrett seemed to like it lots with other children around. Though there was not much interaction between children, he seemed to have enjoyed himself, all smiles and delighted screams.

I took the above pic when they had a little snack break. I don't know why but this picture made my heart break a little. Jarrett looked so lonely. I didn't manage to capture his exact expression but it made me want to give him a little sis/bro. Wx's banging hard on this pic to give him his 2nd child..hmm....
Monday, September 22, 2008
China milk scandal
On a more serious note, it's crazy, what's happening right now. I wonder what kind of lives these people lead to make them capable of such immoral acts. It feels (to me lah) like some sacred codes have been broken by these people. Instead of protecting babies and children, they have caused harm to these innocent lives and alreay, 4 had died. In a country so big and wide, one wonders if it's really only 4 or more. I am also thinking, what are the babies drinking now? I would think most parents are now too worried to feed their babies any formula. While the rich can easily afford the more expensive imported formulas, what about those poor families? Soya milk or goat's milk??
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
A mad mother's rambling
I don't think I'll become one of those crazy, possessive mummies who refused to let go of their sons and make their daughter-in-laws lives miserable. I am really quite a nice person (ahahaha) and don't think I'll ever become so mean. Independence is definitly a trait I want Jarrett to have. but I just can't help feeling miserable with the thought of him leaving the nest. I think mummies reading this may be able to empathize with how I feel while others may think I am mad.
Looking at how fast kids grow and mature these days, I better grab hold of the next 15 years and spend it well with Jarrett.
Tuesday, September 09, 2008
Tyler's turning 2
Tyler with his "Bear" cake. It's a bunny named Bear.
Argh.....dun mess with me and my balloon.
Jarrett having lots of fun with his balloon.
Jarrett had too much fun that afternoon. Too much excitment and new faces, had him all wired up and simply refused to nap for the rest of the day which meant a very cranky Jarrett who refused his milk and food.
Monday, September 08, 2008
Project Tofu #1
Pre-soaked organic soya beans
Blended soya bean
Soya Milk. Yumz...
Lemon juice added. Florets of tofu appeared.
Ta da! Homemade tofu! Wednesday, September 03, 2008
Monday, August 25, 2008
See what I found in Jarrett's box of cereal
Wx opened Jarrett's box of Healthy Times' Barley Cereal on Sat and to our horror, we found little bugs crawling and flying around. We are talking about a premium brand of baby food..organic some more ok..and we got bugs flying out of the box!!! Tsk tsk..you can be sure I will not be buying from them in the future.
I called up the supplier and spoke to the guy in charge. He sounded nice, friendly and (lucky for him) apologetic. I think I would have kick up a big fuss if he had sounded nonchalent about the whole thing. Imagine if the bugs were hidden deep inside the box and we fed Jarrett with the cereal. I would be ready to commit murder! But well, I didn't have to resort to such drastic measures. The guy offered a very..........long explanation and will be making a trip to my office to replace me with a new box of cereal. Nice...good customer service which is how it should be.

















Unfortunately, no pics with the birthday boy. He wasn't feeling very friendly that day. The min. I said "Aunty carry", he started brawling. So we tried to stay clear but towards the end, he warmed up to Jarrett and even shared his toys with Jarrett. Such a sweet & generous boy!




